Friends

yes, it's been some time since i last blog on our blog and basically because i do not know what to write. Some things that i wanted much to shout my frustration out here, i can't due to sensitivity. Life is getting tough and I am tired of all the happenings around me. especially in terms of relationship, which also means friendship too. I consider myself fortunate to have lots of friends around me and not only friends that bypass my life but also friends that have stayed and friends that last forever. Different kind of friends, different kind of relationship. I guess sometimes it is so tough to maintain these relationship that it is kind of frustrating. For example, you are angry with a particular friend but you can express it out. Or you have 2 good friends but suddenly both fall out due to some issue and you are caught in between and you have no idea what you are suppose to do.

i think recently there are some misunderstanding or to a certain extend some unhappiness have happened between friends and guess we were kind of keeping things to ourselves and not "confronting" each other because we do not want to kind of "blow things up". not too sure if this is the best way to resolve the issue or it is just a way of escaping.

another incident, i guess also because of misunderstanding. some days back, a friend was kind of offended by something that was said. i am not too sure how to react to this because i am kind of lost myself. reading too much into the sentence or thinking too much or ??? i dunno.

sometimes when things happened between friends, i guess both parties need to re-evaluate themselves. of coz pointing the finger at the other party 1st is always easier and the 1st instinct that one will do. but on a quieter note, dun you think that we should always evaluate our own actions 1st? maybe this will solve lots of problem and misunderstanding. i know it's not easy coz out of 10 maybe i am only at 1 at this.

Friends are miracle from God and we have to work hard to keep this miracle in our lives. It takes 2 hands to clap always. Friends.