My Hubby

Today is August! I am thinking of starting the month with a write up of my wonderful darling.

My darling, to me is the most wonderful man in my life (besides Jesus, my daddy, my bro and nephews). We knew each other for the past 10 years, courted for the past 6 years and still courting now, and happily married for the past 9 months. In these 10 years, dear has never or rather only 1%, lose his temper in my presence. Where can you find a man with no temper? Rare species right. Sorry mate, this rare man has been taken by me. Haha.

Dear is a God-fearing man and I got to say he has bring me up another level in my spiritual walk. He is also very loving to not only me but to all people around him. 1 thing that I really "bow" down to him is how readily he is in accepting my family into his life. This is something that till today I am still learning and trying my best to adjust to his family. Now, he has already become a part of my family where we cannot do without. My parents, sibiling and niece and nephews adore him. Towards me, he is with lots of patience, love, care and forgiveness. No matter how intolerable I am at home or outside home, dear never point his fingers at me and blame me. Whenever I did something wrong, he always forgive me instantly and even to the extend of how ridiculous and throw tantrums, he still pampers me for all I want. Most importantly, he loves me for who I am.

As a wife, I only enjoys cooking for my husband, making sure that he is well-fed in the tummy. But I do not enjoy doing housework, especially ironing and washing the toilet. Dear never once requested for me to do those chores, he will just make sure that I am not being bothered by those chores. 9 months has passed and I got to say I have only iron clothes twice and never once washed the toilets before. Yes, I have washed clothes, hang clothes, vacuum and mop but never wash toilet. This is my hubby who never makes me do anything against my preference. Out of home affairs, he never demands that I visit my in-laws regularly and let me "decide" when I want to visit them. Tell me, which husband actually does that? Besides all these, it comes to our own personal life. I always feel inferior about my size... being a size 16, sometimes 18 i feel like a fat pig. But dear never once ask me to go on diet or to lose weight, instead he always tell me that I am pretty in my own ways and what matters most is the contents of the heart. This really melts my heart. I heard stories after stories about husbands and boyfriends telling their other half how fat or how they should lost weight, but I really appreciate that my hubby is none of that.

What else? Dear provides me for my shopping, leisure and even for overseas holiday. It can be an expensive holiday but he never complains or say no. He lets me do all the decision and planning. Since we have been together 6 years ago, I got to say I have been traveling alot especially over the past 1 year. Yes, money spent but happy memories forever. He has never complain and all he said to me is "as long as you are happy, and we plan our finances properly." He is really the best hubby on earth to me. To list all his goodness, it will take me eternity. So I just can only keep thanking God for bringing me such a wonderful hubby.

With a hubby like this, what more can I ask for?

Dear, I love you.