The number 1 need of a woman is affection.
Man should learn to give his wife the affection that is due to her. Affection gives the wife a sense of security, protection, comfort and support.
Points a man should learn:
1. Giving a kiss and a hug to the wife before leaving for work
2. Sms/Calling during the day to find out how's she's doing at home/work
3. Giving her a hug when you arrive home and ask about her day
4. Hug and cuddle her to sleep at night
5. Learn to hold hands
6. Open and close the car door for her
7. Share in the housework load
8. Giving her a massage after a long day
9. Remember the big days and surprise her with gifts (gifts are sentimental not practical)
10. Give flowers and little notes occassionally to surprise her
11. Date her once a while
Of all the points above, my hubby fulfill 10/11 except the point where it mentions giving flowers and notes occassionallly. Without fail, dear always kisses and hugs me before leaving for work each day and when he arrives home. He always sms or even calls me during lunch to find out how I am doing and what am I eating for lunch. He always hug me before sleep and always interested in what have I been doing all day long. He listens earnestly to my "complaints" everyday and every night. Without fail, he provides me with massages everyday to release me of the "burden" of the day. Dear does the housework as and when he deems he should do. To be honest, I only do 40% to a max of 60% of the housework. *grins blissfully*
We do not drive or have a car, but whenever we take cab or have a ride from family members, dear will open the door for me. He remembers all the birthdays, anniversary, valentine's day and any other special day and make effort to make the day special for us. He dates me every Wednesday and he never fails to hold my hands.
What else can I ask for with a hubby like this. I feel like the most bliss wife on earth right at this moment. :)
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