is it normal for couples to be under tremendous stress as the date of the wedding draws closer? haven't been blowing my top frequently, not sure if it's PMB or juz me but I really feel very "close up" and have no breathing space at all. can anyone out there teach me how to relax more? it's straining everything up and i feel unhappy, upset. I juz want the day to be our day, a day where we can rest and be sure that everything's gonna be alright and enjoy every single moment of it. Is that wrong of me? God, pls help.