Learn to say NO --- Taken for GRANTED by someone you regard as friend

I guess I must learn the big negative word and more than that, to be bold enough to say it out loud to certain request or whatsoever. the powerful word is NO! I just can't understand why people always like to take you for granted or rather they just want to make themselves look as if like they are very helpless and pitiful. And here am I doing all the stupid work and it all seems like I am SUPPOSE to do it, and it's my JOB. Hey, I am just trying to be nice, to be a friend and to help in whatever way I can. I am already doing the job for FREE where I can easily charge you $2000 for it. Why am I doing all these???? Becoz as a friend and as a cgm, i want to be nice and bless you. But instead, all i get is feeling of being taken for granted, that you are just taking advantage of me. I feel so unjustified, I feel so angry!!!

I know you are stress but hey let me tell u, i am more stress than you ok. so afraid that you won't like this and that for the deco and etc etc. but pls do not take my professionalism for granted and do not mistook my kindness and blessings to you for something that this is what i should be doing for you. I can simply save all the trouble and don't do it, anyway i am not earning. In fact, I am losing and even paying you. why should i do that? i should learn to say NO from the beginning... ... ...what a fool I am! Perhaps you should just go and ask around the market rate, ask for the rate for the deco I am doing it for you. And quit asking me to repeat what I have said before. I am TIRED!!! If you have no trust and full of doubt for me, then in the 1st place, you shouldn't have approach me for help. Go and find someone else... find one that is 100% professional in church wedding deco. Dun find freelance personnel.

ANGRY, UPSET, UNJUSTIFIED!!!